Welcome to my Blog of my daily gratitude and photo of the day!
Since January 1, 2012, my goal is to write a daily sentence or two (or paragraph or two) about gratitude of the day and to include one photo (at least) that I took that day (but will add others from time to time). It has definitely been a challenge most days throughout the past eight years, and welcomed the challenge again this year - 2020 - Covid and all. I hope you will continue the ride with me!
Friday, March 8, 2019
#CelebratingOthers with Elfrieda Harris - Featured Quilter at the Southern Comforters Quilt Show 2019
Elfrieda was born in 1945, and raised in Bloomfield, New Jersey, an only child born to her parents...but "not spoiled," according to Elfrieda. I believe her because she is one of the most gracious and caring persons I know; and I think many would agree with me who know Elfrieda!
When Elfrieda graduated from Bloomfield High School in 1962, she continued her education at Rutgers University; graduating with a Math degree in 1966, and incidentally, was one of only four women graduating from that very rigorous and prestigious program at Rutgers. Her boyfriend, John, who eventually became her husband, who also graduated from Bloomfield, went on to MIT, graduating with an Electrical Engineering degree in 1966 also. Elfrieda was too funny as she stated a few times while we talked that "her whole life happened in the 60's." After graduation, they married and moved to Maryland with jobs in hand; Elfrieda as a programmer at Goddard; and John at the National Security Agency. Life was good and they both appreciated and enjoyed the "gifts" bestowed on them each day.
Elfrieda reminisced on how much she loved working as a programmer (the early years in FORTRAN); while at Goddard, working for contractors throughout her illuminating career; the last 10 years before she retired with Booze-Allen. She loved the beautiful campus, the environment, and her easy commute from Greenbelt (where they first lived when they moved to MD; and Bowie from 1969 on).
She and John had two children; Jonathan born in 1970 and Pamela born in 1973. Elfrieda took a 10 year "leave" to raise her family, but jumped right back in in 1980 and never looked back. Unfortunately, John was diagnosed and lost his battle with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma before his 50th birthday in 1994. It was a devastating loss to Elfrieda and her children as one could imagine, but she carried on as best as she could. Three years later, she met Larry at the Ski Club of Annapolis, and they remain a couple today. Larry has been a blessing and a terrific grandfather to Elfrieda's four grandchildren and they enjoy each day together as well.
Interestingly, as a programmer, Elfrieda loved puzzles that stretched and challenged her on the job each day. She also loves to solve puzzles noting math and quilting are all about solving puzzles. This purple-loving gal began quilting 30 years ago when a coworker introduced her to the world of fabric and ultimately quilting. She made her daughter a Christmas quilt and has been quilting ever since. She's learned a few tips and tricks along the way (no longer ties her quilts), has an awesome color sense, and enjoyed garment sewing and construction through her children's toddler years.
It's interesting to me that so many quilters have enjoyed crafts and needlework before going down the path of quilting. In fact, Elfrieda's mom was not a sewist or quilter, but took up the avocation after her retirement. Guess who taught her how to sew? Her daughter, Elfrieda, did of course! Full circle moment for her Mom, and Elfrieda's son, who also likes to sew and can make beautiful Halloween costumes when pressed into "service." (exquisite costume making when his children were young).
Today, Elfrieda prefers to work in bright colors (she is a gal after my own heart), and is grateful for each day. She dotes on her grandchildren and grown children, makes beautiful quilts, and has been a member of the Southern Comforters Quilt Guild for over 10 years. She is a delightful person, and if local, please check out her quilts at our show in two weeks (website highlighted above). You don't want to miss the chance to meet Elfrieda, or her quilts!
BSoleille! The bright side of #CelebratingOthers with Elfrieda Harris!
Terri
Photos of Larry and Elfrieda below, her family and some of her quilts...
Thursday, March 7, 2019
We've Got a New Bee-Mate with Debbi Carter
So it was no different with Debbi, as we trucked up her stairs to, what she calls, her "craft room." We all got to ooh and ahh over her wall of stash...fabric stash that is. It's a comfortable place for anyone who enters, especially taking in all those lush fabrics is a feast for the eyes.
BSoleille! The bright side of "new" bee-mate, Debbi Carter!
Terri
Debbi with her stash...
Tuesday, March 5, 2019
That Fish Eye...in Lancaster, PA
We also trekked to other fabric stores (and even "found" a new one); and the "Amish Target" called Goode's. We also like to shop where Mennonites and Amish women shop; and that is where I took the fisheye photo. The sun was shining just right into the tank, and the fish seemed quite playful. I took a lot of photos and this playful fishy caught my eye just right...and me his!
BSoleille!
Terri
Monday, March 4, 2019
Quilt Show Team
I am thankful to "work" with a bunch of great quilters, who not only give from their sewing (think community quilts etc.), but in many ways throughout the year. This year, I am proud to represent my guild, along with Wendy Allen and Susie Stevenson, as the Quilt Show Team Leaders. We have a stellar cast to help with the many facets of putting on a great show, and I am thrilled to work so closely with them as we have learned no detail is too big or too small to tackle. It's a ying-yang thing with three people, a good way to have our checks and balances as we proceed right up until the show.
BSoleille!
Terri
Photo of Susie Stevenson and Wendy Allen at our local storage shed.
Sunday, March 3, 2019
Tiny Potty
If you've taught or volunteered in a preschool or elementary school, they do accommodate the kiddies with little toilets, but I/we were not expecting to see one in the Convention Center. What a great thing to provide this service to world's littlest customers!
BSoleille!
Terri
Friday, March 1, 2019
Inspiration at the 30th Anniversary of the Mid-Atlantic Quilt Festival
I salivated over some very pretty fabric(s)...which I eventually...ahem.. bought. I also stocked up on my long-arm supplies of batting and threads, and oohed and ahhed over the many beautiful quilts in the show which was worth the trip for jump-starting inspiration and that unmistakable can-do attitude that the sky's the limit on what can be done with fabric!
I'd like to add that as soon as my show quilts are done, and my NeedleOnFull Tshirt quilts are up to date, you bet I'm going to start something new....and hopefully, finish the "older" UFO's and WIP's too. This will take me to the end of 2019 (probably longer)....so I'll fasten the seatbelt on my sewing chair, and drive my machine like mad at 1,000 MPH just to get me started.
BSoleille!
Terri
| Tables of pretty fabrics |
| Misty Cole's quilt: "Nepenthes" |
| Terri and Susie with Misty Cole's quilt: "Political Circus" |
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
A Giving Guild
I am truly thankful for the commitment of our members in "covering the world" one quilt at a time.
BSoleille!
Terri
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
And the Winner Is...
Tonight, before we were all dismissed to attend one of the academy award winning movies (our choice as to which one to attend), a ribbon cutting ceremony was held by Second Lady Karen Pence, President and Founder of Tracy's Kids, Matt Gerson and Tracy Councill to kick off their eighth hospital to serve children and their families at Walter Reed Military Medical Center. Art Therapy programs are outstanding, and even scientific proof on how well people can cope with whatever their dealing with after doing an art therapy project.
My family and I were honored to be a part of this fabulous evening, and celebrating the good news of a new local program benefiting armed forces children in battling the good fight of childhood cancer.
BSoleille!
Terri
Sunday, February 24, 2019
Maryland United FC Women's College Showcase Tournament Extravaganza
I was thankful to be a part of a wonderful crew of referees all weekend long. We count on each other and try to do our very best with each match, no matter if we are the center referee or assistant referee (sidelines). We are considered the third team on the pitch!
BSoleille!
Terri
From L-R: Teri Frontin, Brett H, Chico Brown, Tom, Barry Lawrence, Me and our Assignor, Mark Jennings.
Saturday, February 23, 2019
Grit or Dressing Right? For Cold Weather Activities Outdoors
Since January 5, 2019, I've refereed 25 games (on weekends), with four snow-out games cancelled. I really do not mind the cold when dressed appropriately, but that bone-chillin' rain is something else, and you need grit to just get through it (don't forget, we can't use an umbrella). But the kids are out there giving it their all no matter the conditions, and so should the referees. And we do; and I am grateful for every game completed out on that pitch.
And do you know what my go-to piece of clothing that makes all the difference? A turtleneck cashmere wool sweater on top of a cold weather Under-Armour long-sleeved shirt. It's the combination that makes any cold weather game bearable, even enjoyable to be honest.
So there you have it; dressing right, and maybe a little bit of grit can get anyone through cold outdoor conditions whether refereeing soccer, hiking through a great trail, or going for a walk or run. It's all quite doable for sure!
BSoleille!
Terri
I saw this "Grit" sign on our way to Crested Butte, Colorado, in 2017!
Friday, February 22, 2019
#CelebratingOthers with Clarice Lin of London, England
For this incredible meet-up with Clarice, I've got to hand it to my husband, Bill, who is constantly working the social media platforms to bring education, goodness and kindness to a whole new level. You see, Bill and Clarice met on LinkedIn a few years ago. They were liking and sharing the same things, and finally "met" through the LinkedIn platform. They encouraged each other in their individual endeavors, read the same books on social strategies, and both love to encourage others to be the "best they can be." A social media "mesh" made in heaven, if you will.
Once our trip to London was underway, Bill reached out to Clarice (she has lived in London for the past nine years); and offered to meet up for breakfast...or any meal that she may be available while we were there, sans the soccer games on the agenda. We finally settled on a date, and Bill, "The Best Daughter" and I met at, believe it or not, "Breakfast at Bill's Restaurant." We settled in on a very cold morning for an English breakfast, and lots of fast talking (and listening) by Bill and Clarice meeting IRL. Clarice was even up for a Twinztalk episode (I videotaped it); as well as videoing one for her too - on her phone). It was tech savvy times a million and the conversation pinged around the table at lightning speed. Thankfully, everyone was able to share some keen knowledge and learn from each other too.
Interestingly enough, Clarice was born (in 1982) and raised in Singapore when Singapore was advancing their educational system and therefore learned all her subjects in English. Her "mother tongue" is Mandarin Chinese, and she speaks two other languages fluently (that's four, folks!). She is one smart young lady, raised by traditional parents and two younger brothers (they all still live in Singapore), and has a tremendous thirst for knowledge, marketing strategies and data mining. This is due to her 10 year career in corporate doing data analysis, intelligence and marketing research.
This blue and hot pink loving gal founded her own company: www.baselinelabs.com three years ago where she helps clients with their data, marketing techniques and social growth no matter the size of the company she is working with. Additionally, she is energized by all the available technology to help advance any business she touches, and this is exactly what this very independent woman is: a business entrepreneur explorer! No task is too big or too small or too complicated for Clarice. She loves solving marketing challenges for all!
As one would think, she is working all the time (have computer (or smartphone) and there you have it: work). When I inquired if she ever has down time, she giggled and revealed that she loves to read, run, and watch TV when she gets the chance. Whew!
You can find Clarice on many social media platforms: Facebook: @claricecoach; on Twitter: @BaseLineLabs.com and LinkedIn: Clarice Lin
Lastly, I am so thankful we were able to make that special morning happen on our recent trip. Clarice was fantastic in giving some mentoring advice to Olivia, even in that short time; and meeting Bill and exchanging all their social media love and kindness to go out into the world and keep sharing their unique brand(s).
BSoleille! The bright side of #CelebratingOthers with Clarice Lin!
Terri
Thursday, February 21, 2019
A Throwback Thursday Pic
BSoleille! And a big shout of Thanks to BG for sending this blast from the past...
Terri
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
Are You a Happy Camper?
It was a fun piece to make and sew cute too! And, best of all before it settles into its new home, it will be shown in the Southern Comforters Quilt Show coming up in March!
BSoleille!
Terri
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
A Little Christmas in February
You cannot tell from the photo that these particular flowers are as big as my head and really quite beautiful and bring joy during these cold days of winter. The forecast is snow tomorrow and schools are already closed without one flake hitting the ground yet.
So these Christmas blooms, or Valentine's blooms, make everything seem brighter; and I am grateful for that!
BSoleille!
Terri
Monday, February 18, 2019
It's Not Only the Quilting...
One thing I find fascinating is the thought process in going into every project for each person. Some elements include the colors, the fabrics and the pattern on how it all goes together to please the eye!
Take a look at some of the "works" this weekend...
BSoleille!
Terri
| The totes |
| Linda Boone and Robin Stinchcomb |
| Snail pin cushions |
| Carrie Casto hard at work... |
| Everyone working hard (Karen Todd in pink and Cappy Phillips behind her) |
| Our "out of staters"; Linda Boone from Virginia and Charlotte K from Texas |
| Robin S. and Donna Norris with their totes! |
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| Carrie Casto with her rug! |
Friday, February 15, 2019
Retreat 2019 with my Sewing Sisters
When I look up from my sewing machine, I see awesome women from all walks of life diligently, and some quite precisely, working on a plethora of unbelievable quilts, tote bags, pillows and knitting testing. It’s tantamount to the talent we all share, and in turn, inspires me to do my best work. And for that I am truly grateful!
BSoleille!
Terri
Thursday, February 14, 2019
Day of Love
BSoleille!
Terri
Wednesday, February 13, 2019
Hearts for Comfort
Sew, when Misty Cole, our Program Chair, offered the members to make hearts for our program part of our meeting tonight, I was all in (and several other members too). I still get choked up remembering when my Dad passed away in 2001, and the guild members sent me hearts along with very sincere sentiments. I also got hearts when our son Ryan was going through a difficult time in his cancer journey; again, beautiful hearts made and sent to me by caring members.
It's been noted lately that many members of our guild have lost loved ones, and some going through tough times, so Misty encouraged us to share our resources (fabric/cutting/ironing) to make hearts for those that can certainly use a pick-me-up. And what better time to make them, the day before Valentine's Day...a win-win for all.
BSoleille! The bright side of comfort hearts!
Terri
Monday, February 11, 2019
"Sewfari Bee" from 2014
If you know a quilter, you know it could take years to finish a project, let alone multiple projects. For that quilter, though, it seems "just like yesterday" when the project was started. So now I'm thinking that five years is not too shabby in finishing this "Friendship Star Quilt" (I have several more UFO's and WIP's; that is, Unfinished Objects and Works in Progress) to a tune of about 20-25.
I am thankful to be "almost" finished with this Friendship Star...though it needs borders and those are being auditioned as I write this post. This quilt and many others from the Southern Comforters will be beautifully displayed at our upcoming show next month: March 23, 24, 2019 at Sam Ogle Middle School in Bowie, Maryland. Check out our Facebook page and our website for further information.
http://southerncomforters.org/
BSoleille!
Terri
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| My "notes" |
Sunday, February 10, 2019
Mad Men and the 60's
The beauty of Netflix/Amazon/Hulu etc., is that we all get the chance to tune into a show, and watch, commercial free, for hours if we wish.
I found this show quite fascinating as it's set in the 60's (my young era). The glamorous NYC Madison Avenue advertising agencies were really something back then, and the show depicts the fashions of the day; the Vietnam War, the assassinations of JFK, MLK and Bobby Kennedy, plus the riots and the Beatles (along with all the advertising that went along with so many of the products we all know...and possibly love). Interestingly, the show uses actual footage of those bygone days, and it has given me a nostalgic feeling every time I tune in (plus helps me remember that decade of my primary years).
What about the TV's themselves? Remotes or no? I would have to see a photograph to remember ours during the early 60's, but I do remember that they were big and clunky, and we always needed to adjust that antennae to have a "clear picture."
BSoleille!
Terri
Photo of a TV from the 60's (I believe we had one that was very similar to this one).
Saturday, February 9, 2019
Light Catchers on Fire...
So any sun-catcher, crystal or stain-glass hung in the back windows beams the fiery light around the room celestially. That certain light makes reading, and definitely sewing, a great delight.
Today's photo is from the brilliant sunset shining through my "sun-catchers."
BSoleille!
Terri
Thursday, February 7, 2019
Trying My Best
Blogger is planning on changing some things around come March 1st; it’s the platform I use for this blog. As I’ve mentioned in previous posts, I’ve been limping along with posts and photos (not loading), and a few other things and have employed various "go-arounds" to try and keep this good thing going.
This "almost" daily blogging has become a large part of who I am, and I truly believe I’m better for it. I love thinking about what I’ll write about and post as I go through my day. Some days are easier than others, of course, but the new "wrinkles" could pose some issues in my posts. Time will tell and I will continue on as much as it will allow me under the Blogger banner.
Fingers crossed for a smooth transition to whatever is in store...
BSoleille!
Terri
PS my photo would not load...
Thread Thread Everywhere Thread
Recently, I was looking for a "simple" green thread from my big bag of thread and had to dump the entire bag to find the "exact" one I was looking for. Thankfully, I was able to find it through all the thread nests built up over time, and finished the project. As all those spools lay in wait, it occurred to me that all sewing boils down to a uncomplicated needle and thread...basic for sure.
BSolielle! The bright side of a simple needle and thread...
Terri
Monday, February 4, 2019
February Haiku - Winter Sunset
Winter sunset blaze
Orange ball swiftly sinking
Into the darkness
BSoleille! The bright side of appreciating each sunset, even in wintertime.
Terri
Sunday, February 3, 2019
Game Time with Super Bowl 53
Thank goodness for Maroon5, Big Boi, and Travis Scott for the entertaining halftime show, and the best commercials we all "love" to see.
BSoleille!
Terri
Saturday, February 2, 2019
"Million Little" Quilts
BSoleille!
Terri
Friday, February 1, 2019
#CelebratingOthers with Betsy Rector - Retired Programmer from Goddard Space Flight Center (Contractor)
But not only was she interested in meeting all of us, we were interested in her too. Betsy, we learned, was always interested in crafting since she was born (her words). When she was young, and with various moves with her family in suburban Maryland, her Mom was very "crafty" and instrumental in helping her five children (Betsy being the youngest) in meeting the neighboring children with her arts and crafts. Her Mom taught "painting" and ceramics, and even had a kiln to fire all the clay work done by the neighborhood kids. Betsy also witnessed her Mom sew all her clothes, plus her siblings clothes, and at one point, also became enamored with a needle and thread and a sewing machine. From that time on she has always enjoyed sewing including clothing, wedding dresses and her 'famous' drawstring bags.
Her craft of choice today: puppets. Betsy finds all sorts of things to make them; including socks, tennis balls, toilet paper rolls, and most recently, crafted a puppet out of a life-sized dress form.
Despite all her excellent crafting, Betsy worked for 40 years as a programmer with the Goddard Space Flight Center in Greenbelt, Maryland, all as a contractor. She revealed she began working there as a "summer student" (now called intern) after her second year of college (educated at St. Mary's College and E. Tennessee University majoring in math and science). She even met her husband, Ron, in 1963 during her second summer of her internship and married him six months later. They had two girls; Debbi and Margaret and they raised their family in suburban Maryland also.
When Betsy first started at Goddard as data technician, she managed "calculators" as large as a manual typewriters and gathered information on large reeled tapes plotting the data on graph paper for the Radio Astronomy Section. It was tough (everything by hand), but Betsy exclaimed she loved her job from the moment she entered the halls of Goddard. Within the first year, Betsy felt capable to ask her boss if she could learn to program, a move, she recalls, delighted her and her strong math and science skills. She was told to talk to "Steve", and then "Steve" had her working with his programs and she was told to "make changes." Before long she was writing her own programs in FORTRAN and balancing her work and family obligations.
Well before Betsy's retirement in 2013, she began using the advanced computer technology to write soft-ware programs in real time in the Lab of Thermal Vacuum Chambers (testing satellite parts like temperature sensors/pressures/power etc.) for the large telescopes that record the radio waves emitting from the planet and stars (24/hours a day). All this data needs to be retrieved and evaluated.
This blue-loving grandmother of six (five grandsons, and one granddaughter) moved to the middle of Wisconsin (daughter Margaret and her family live in the area) with her husband about five years ago and likes it! It's cold there, of course, and -50 degrees two days ago!
BSolelille! The bright side of Betsy Rector, who had an illustrious career with Goddard as basically a "self-taught" programmer and an excellent sewist and crafter!
Terri
Photos of Betsy and her family
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| Betsy at the November 2018 Retreat |
| Grandson Seth's wedding |















